Yom Kippur: A Day of Joy and Intimacy

Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, holds a special position as “The Sabbath of Sabbaths” (Lev. 23), i.e. the holiest day in the High Holiday season. It is an opportunity to heal rifts that inevitably grow in our spiritual life, obtain forgiveness for misdeeds and to open a “new page,” so to speak for the coming year. In the time of the Temple, the High Priest would enter the Holy of Holies and perform the Scapegoat ritual. In the modern era, more Jews flock to synagogues than any other day of the year, praying and fasting together, often dressed in white, symbolizing purity.

This unit will outline two approaches to understanding and experiencing fasting on Yom Kippur. On the one hand, fasting is an expression of a day of penance and fear, as indicated by the term “self-affliction.” At the same time, it is also a reflection of the day’s heightened spiritual state and our loving intimacy with God. Secondly, we will explore how intimacy with God is achieved through healing our relationships with one another.

Click here to read the full unit from the ICJW Bea Zucker Calendar Study Series “Feminist Inspiration for Living on the Jewish Cycle”.

Meesh Hammer-Kossoy

Rabbi Dr. Meesh Hammer-Kossoy is Director of the Year Program and Rosh Beit Midrash at Pardes, where she has taught since 1999. Originally from Washington, D.C., Meesh is a Pardes alumna herself, attending the Year Program in 1991-1992. Meesh holds degrees from Brandeis University and New York University, and received Orthodox ordination from Beit Midrash Har’el in 2015.

Meesh previously taught at NYU, Drisha, and Midreshet Lindenbaum. She has received multiple fellowships, including from ATID, the Memorial Foundation, and the National Foundation for Jewish Culture. Despite having written her doctoral dissertation about criminal punishment in the Talmudic period, Meesh is known by her husband and three children as a lover of mercy and kindness.